When we talk about being independent, we often think about leaving our parents and living alone. The mental independence is always ignored by people, mental independence means the person can measure the things and make the right decision. As for the children, even they move out and stay far away from their parents, but sometimes they just can’t control themselves, they will get the bad behavior, like smoking and drinking, their life is losing control. The young people need to cultivate their independent spirit, they should think by themselves, learn to take care of the other people, thus they can be the real independent. When a person grows up, they can be strong enough to support their lives and at the same time, they can be mature enough to make their own decision. They can tell what is wrong and what is right.

當(dāng)我們談到成為獨立，總是想要離開父母，獨自居住。精神上的獨立總是被人們忽略，精神上的獨立意味著一個人能衡量事情，做出正確的決定。對于孩子來說，雖然他們搬出去，遠(yuǎn)離父母，但是有時候他們無法自控，養(yǎng)成不好的習(xí)慣。比如抽煙和喝酒，他們的生活會失控。年輕人需要養(yǎng)成獨立精神，他們應(yīng)該自己思考，學(xué)著去照顧別人，這樣才能真正的獨立。當(dāng)一個人成長了，他們才能夠足夠的強大去養(yǎng)活自己，同時，也能夠足夠成熟去做決定。他們能區(qū)分什么是好，什么是壞。