We Have to Say Goodbye

No rose, no diamond ring, that's the simple and romantic love stories in college. The graduates have to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved. When their future is confronted with love, which one is more important? What will the lovers do in June?

沒(méi)有玫瑰的芬芳，沒(méi)有鉆戒的世俗，這就是大學(xué)戀情——純情而唯美。畢業(yè)生不得不面臨六月的來(lái)臨，也就是向心愛(ài)的人道別的時(shí)刻。當(dāng)前途與愛(ài)情一同遭遇未來(lái)，該如何取舍？六月里的戀人會(huì)怎么做呢？

Don't cry, my baby

There are so many love stories in college. If the lovers met each other by note passed, the story was called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if they became lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love”. Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, and they got the so-called “QQ love”.

Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade. Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset. So he entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time. While he was roaming about on the net, a stranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you?” Then he began chatting with him or her. Liu poured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to be discouraged, for there was still chance. After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every day and it lasted for a week. Liu felt very happy. On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do you want to see me?” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation. “Then you can turn your head back.” And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu.

However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice. Xiao Yu is a local girl and her home is in Wuhan. While Liu Bing comes from Xi'an. They are both the only child in their family. Their parents aren't against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home. They quarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city they would choose. Xi'an or Wuhan? They were up a gum tree and couldn't come to terms.

Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time. When Liu typed out “Let's break up”, Xiao Yu couldn't restrain her tears any more.

Still a long way to go

Chen Li has been unhappy recently. With the coming of graduation, she's become even more depressed. She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don't have a special story; they got to know each other in the library. Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library. They would go to cinema or walk on the streets at weekends. Three years have passed quietly. They promised to take the postgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade. Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 points margin in English.

Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there. Considering the economic condition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus. On the one hand, the living expense is lower here. On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies.

At night, thinking that her lover would leave for Beijing, Chen Li's tears fell down her cheeks silently, making her pillowslip wet all over. Although Jia Hao encouraged her over and over again that she would succeed at the second try and they would reunion in Beijing, however, he said so at the last time. Will their love still go on in case she fails?

A new life for us

Different from those sorrowful lovers, Ye Qing is like a happy bird flying in and out of her dormitory. She and her boyfriend were in the same class in high school. Fortunately they both came to Beijing though not in the same university. They're not far from each other, although they can't be very much in love every day like other love birds. Ye Qing feels contented that they can spend weekends together. Sometimes, Ye Qing would call her boyfriend and asked him to see her in half an hour and bring some snacks passingly.

Her boyfriend majors in the pop Communication. He has been employed by a well-known communicating corporation in Shenzhen. Ye Qing hasn't found a satisfying job, but they've planed that she also goes to Shenzhen to hunt a job. As a major in Economic and Trade English, Ye thinks it not difficult in finding a job such as secretary or assistant. As far as buying house and car, she told us secretly, “He promised that I needn't consider that kind of things.”

To the moment they have enough time to wile away. Ye has decided it was time to make up for the past 4 years' loss of romance. Now they've been shopping around, going to movies and playing badminton every day. Seeing her boyfriend being “tortured”, Ye felt as happy as a princess in fairy tales.

Point of view

Hu Juan, graduate of 2002

My love came to the end with the coming of graduation. Nobody could taste my sorrow at that time. I felt I lost the man I loved most in the world. Such is not the fact. I worked, fell in love with another guy and then got married. Looking back on my love in college, I found that we were just in the same camp on entertainment. While my husband and I are living our lives.

Liu Xiaoming, graduate of 2003

I've been married. Of course, my wife was my girlfriend in the university. We had been in love for 3 years. Compared with other husband and wife, we feel it a superiority to own each other's past. We would talk about our university life and recall dribs and drabs. Whenever we recollect together, we could feel each other's heartbeat. And the expression in our eyes would become very gentle. The beautiful memory will always nourish our marriage.

Li Rong, senior

It's enough that each love starts with a beautiful beginning. As for whether it will come to an end, I feel it unnecessary to think too much. Love out of campus doesn't always have a happy ending. Therefore, when love comes, we should enjoy the pleasure of loving. When love comes to an end, we could also taste its grief of parting. Tears taste sweet as long as you love your life.

Wang Qin, senior

I don't have a boyfriend, but some boys are wooing me. I feel they're not my cup of tea, so I refused. I have a wish that they could give me a hug before I leave by train when I graduate. I admire those who are in love on campus and at the same time I felicitate myself on not choosing at random. During the four years in university, as long as you live in earnest, you won't regret, whether you own love or not, whether your love has future or not.

寶貝，別哭

校園里上演著那么多的愛(ài)情故事。如果戀人通過(guò)紙條表白愛(ài)情，就被稱為“白條之戀”；如果他們?cè)诳觳偷昀锵嘧R(shí)、相戀，就叫“快餐之戀”；如果是在野炊時(shí)相愛(ài)，當(dāng)然就是“野炊之戀”了。劉冰是通過(guò)QQ聊天認(rèn)識(shí)小雨的，也就是所謂的“QQ之戀”。

他們的故事開(kāi)始于大二下半學(xué)期。剛開(kāi)學(xué)，劉冰在四級(jí)考試中掛了，沒(méi)有通過(guò)，他非常沮喪，就來(lái)到學(xué)校附近的網(wǎng)吧打發(fā)時(shí)間。正當(dāng)他在網(wǎng)上神游時(shí)，突然QQ上有人問(wèn)a他：“可以和你聊聊嗎？”劉冰就和她聊了起來(lái)，其實(shí)他還不知道對(duì)方是男是女。劉冰將自己的苦惱一傾而出，對(duì)方就耐心地開(kāi)導(dǎo)他，說(shuō)別灰心，還有機(jī)會(huì)呢。此后，有一個(gè)星期，他們約定每天8點(diǎn)來(lái)聊天，劉冰覺(jué)得很開(kāi)心。到了第7天，對(duì)方問(wèn)劉冰：“想見(jiàn)面嗎？”劉冰沒(méi)有任何猶豫地打下一個(gè)字：“想！”對(duì)方說(shuō)：“ 那你就回頭吧！”于是，劉冰轉(zhuǎn)身就看到了那個(gè)可愛(ài)的女孩，小雨。

然而，面對(duì)畢業(yè)，他們卻不知道如何選擇。小雨的家就在武漢本地，而劉冰來(lái)自于西安。作為家里的獨(dú)生子女，雙方父母不反對(duì)他們?cè)谝黄?，但都希望兒女能回到自己的身邊。他們倆為了畢業(yè)后的去向問(wèn)題吵翻了天，矛盾的焦點(diǎn)是“要留在哪個(gè)城市？”。選擇西安，還是選擇武漢，兩人犯難了，而且誰(shuí)都不肯讓步。

最后，劉冰和小雨又去網(wǎng)吧上網(wǎng)聊天，依然是背對(duì)背。當(dāng)劉冰打出“我們分手吧”幾個(gè)字后，小雨的眼淚再也忍不住了。

路漫漫其修遠(yuǎn)兮

晨麗最近郁郁寡歡，看著畢業(yè)的日子一天天逼近，越來(lái)越無(wú)精打采。她和男朋友賈皓的故事沒(méi)有什么特別的，就是在圖書(shū)館認(rèn)識(shí)的。兩個(gè)愛(ài)學(xué)習(xí)的人，最大的樂(lè)趣就是泡圖書(shū)館，然后在周末去看看電影，逛逛街。三年下來(lái)，倒也平淡。大三時(shí)他們就約定一起考研到北京，然而晨麗卻因英語(yǔ)2分之差落榜了。

賈皓鼓勵(lì)晨麗和他一起去北京，然后在北京專(zhuān)職考研。然而考慮到兩人的經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況，晨麗還是覺(jué)得留在學(xué)校再考比較合適，一方面這里的生活費(fèi)用相對(duì)較低，再者自己也熟悉這里的環(huán)境，能安心學(xué)習(xí)。

夜里想著自己心愛(ài)的人就要遠(yuǎn)赴北京了，晨麗的眼淚就無(wú)聲無(wú)息地流出來(lái)了，枕巾被打濕了一大片。盡管賈皓一再鼓勵(lì)她，說(shuō)她第二次一定會(huì)考上的，那時(shí)他們就會(huì)在北京相聚?？墒?，第一次考研時(shí)賈皓就是這么鼓勵(lì)她的，萬(wàn)一她第二次還沒(méi)考上，那么他們的愛(ài)情會(huì)怎么樣呢？

新生活在向我們招手

和那些悲傷的戀人不同，葉晴快樂(lè)地像只小鳥(niǎo)，整天從宿舍飛進(jìn)飛出。她和男友是高中同學(xué)，雖然高考沒(méi)考到同一所學(xué)校，但幸運(yùn)的是都考到了北京，而且兩個(gè)學(xué)校也相距不遠(yuǎn)。雖然不能像別的戀人一樣天天卿卿我我，但能在一起快樂(lè)地度過(guò)周末，對(duì)葉晴來(lái)說(shuō)已經(jīng)很滿足了。有時(shí)候，實(shí)在忍不住，葉晴就給男友打電話，讓他半小時(shí)內(nèi)立即趕到，并且?guī)c(diǎn)零食過(guò)來(lái)。

男友學(xué)的是炙手可熱的通訊工程，已經(jīng)被深圳一家有名的通訊企業(yè)錄取。雖然葉晴還沒(méi)有找到工作，但他們已經(jīng)計(jì)劃好了，就是葉晴也去深圳，然后在深圳找工作。由于學(xué)的是經(jīng)貿(mào)英語(yǔ)，葉晴相信找個(gè)秘書(shū)、助理之類(lèi)的工作還是沒(méi)有問(wèn)題。至于以后買(mǎi)房子、買(mǎi)車(chē)子，她偷偷告訴我們：“他已經(jīng)答應(yīng)不用我考慮了！”

正好畢業(yè)前這一段時(shí)間有大把的時(shí)間可以揮霍，葉晴決定把過(guò)去4年的浪漫損失彌補(bǔ)回來(lái)，天天拉著男友逛商場(chǎng)、看電影、打羽毛球，看著男友被折磨的樣子，葉晴幸福得像傳說(shuō)中的公主。

◆ 觀點(diǎn)

扈娟 02屆畢業(yè)生

我的愛(ài)情隨著畢業(yè)而終結(jié)，當(dāng)時(shí)的感傷沒(méi)有人能體會(huì)，感覺(jué)天底下最?lèi)?ài)的人就這樣失去了。事實(shí)上不是這樣的，我工作了，然后戀愛(ài)、結(jié)婚?，F(xiàn)在回過(guò)頭來(lái)審讀大學(xué)時(shí)代的感情，發(fā)現(xiàn)那時(shí)的我與他，不過(guò)是“玩樂(lè)”上的志同道合；而與現(xiàn)在的先生，則是生活上的志同道合。

劉小明 03屆畢業(yè)生

我已經(jīng)結(jié)婚了，老婆當(dāng)然是大學(xué)熱戀三年的女友了。我覺(jué)得我們比起其他夫妻最大的優(yōu)勢(shì)就是擁有對(duì)方的過(guò)去，隔段時(shí)間我們不由自主就會(huì)去談?wù)摯髮W(xué)時(shí)光，回憶那時(shí)的點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴。每當(dāng)此時(shí)，都能感應(yīng)到對(duì)方的心跳，彼此注視的眼神也變得格外柔軟。美好的回憶，將滋養(yǎng)我們以后的婚姻之花。

李蓉 大四學(xué)生

每一段戀情都以美好開(kāi)端，這就夠了。至于有沒(méi)有結(jié)果，我覺(jué)得沒(méi)必要想那么多。社會(huì)上的愛(ài)情，也不一定因?yàn)槊篮镁陀薪Y(jié)果啊。所以，愛(ài)情來(lái)了，我們就享受愛(ài)的歡樂(lè)；愛(ài)情走了，我們就體驗(yàn)愛(ài)的離愁。只要熱愛(ài)生活，淚水也是甜的。

王琴 大四學(xué)生

我沒(méi)有男朋友，不過(guò)追求我的男生倒有幾個(gè)，我覺(jué)得他們不適合我，所以一直拒絕著。我有一個(gè)奢望，希望畢業(yè)時(shí)上車(chē)的那一刻，能得到他們的一個(gè)擁抱。我羨慕那些擁有校園愛(ài)情的同學(xué)，也為我自己的寧缺勿濫喝彩。大學(xué)四年，用心去過(guò)了，就無(wú)怨無(wú)悔，不論有沒(méi)有愛(ài)情，不論愛(ài)情有沒(méi)有未來(lái)。

心酸的浪漫

1．不管你曾經(jīng)多么內(nèi)向，你一定要在全班同學(xué)面前，認(rèn)認(rèn)真真地講一次話，或者唱一支歌，即使你和開(kāi)學(xué)時(shí)一樣，再介紹一回你自己。

2．拜訪一回你最尊敬的老師，在畢業(yè)時(shí)，認(rèn)真地記住一條關(guān)于人生的經(jīng)驗(yàn)。

3．在一個(gè)太陽(yáng)還沒(méi)有升起來(lái)的早晨，去操場(chǎng)跑一次步，和那些生猛的大一新生們比較一下懶覺(jué)睡多了后體力上的差距。

4．在宿舍里不要有類(lèi)似于寫(xiě)“某某到此一游”的行為。

5．下定決心，班集體的活動(dòng)這次一定不會(huì)借故溜走——如果還有的話。

6．很認(rèn)真地穿一次西裝（套裝），看看自己和４年前，變化的地方在哪里？

7．花一個(gè)下午的時(shí)間，認(rèn)真地整理一次自己的書(shū)箱，哪些是可以留的，哪些是不要了的。在某本書(shū)里，是不是看見(jiàn)了一張陌生已久的紙條，或者是某人的名字。

8．男生整理衣柜的時(shí)候，記得把你的球衣送給你的學(xué)弟，CD送給學(xué)妹，游戲碟記得自己帶走。

9．記得留下每一個(gè)你覺(jué)得應(yīng)該是朋友的聯(lián)系方式，然后把你新單位的電話給他們。

10．終于要走了，再剪一次發(fā)，讓自己嶄嶄新新地離開(kāi)，然后，嶄嶄新新地開(kāi)始。

11．記得歸還你的證件，陪伴了你４年的桌子、椅子和凳子——我們不提倡你寧愿罰錢(qián)也要留下你的圖書(shū)證、學(xué)生證、醫(yī)療證、食堂飯卡……但我們對(duì)此表示理解。

12．論文答辯可能是你人生當(dāng)中最后一次的課堂作業(yè)了，請(qǐng)你認(rèn)真地書(shū)寫(xiě)每一個(gè)字。

13．和你一起睡了４年的床，一定要記得和它合一張影。

14．盡可能地送走每一個(gè)你能送的同學(xué)，你要明白，他們是你４年的同學(xué)，他們中的某人，也許是你最后一次能見(jiàn)到了。

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